The Law of Attraction is the new buzz term. You can read about it everywhere. The popular definition is that if you think positive thoughts, positive things happen to you. On the opposite end, if you think negative thoughts, negative things happen to you. In my experience, it isn’t that simple.

Everything in the universe vibrates. Everything…. This includes inanimate objects like rocks, grass, trees, or anything that you can think about. We each vibrate, but at different frequencies. As humans, especially, our emotional state determines our vibrational frequency. Your frequency attracts individuals and situations that are on the same frequency. Each emotion is tied to a frequency. For example, negative emotions such as anger, hatred, jealousy, self-pity and fear each vibrate at a different one. If your “default” emotional state tends to be negative, more times than not, you will “find” yourself in various negative situations to support your generally negative outlook. You will attract people and events that are a reflection of who you are or, rather, how you see yourself. You will fulfill your own prophecy. Whatever you experience in your outer world is a direct reflection of the condition of your inner world. Your thoughts matter. I mean it. Your thoughts become things(matter). This is especially true when it comes to the reoccurring thoughts that we think about ourselves, people and our world around us. They are the root cause of the vast majority of our suffering. Our thoughts can stress us out. If you stress out enough, you might find yourself experiencing dis-ease. Sounds familiar?

The key to using the Law of Attraction is deciding to find the good in your current situation. Practice being present. That is all of the time that you truly have anyway. Learn to love yourself regardless of your circumstance or what you have done. Expect the best out of life each day. Focus on what and who you are grateful for in your life at any given moment. Tell people that you associate with what you appreciate about them. Say hello and thank you as often as you can to others and mean it. Go out of your way to show kindness to others as well as patience. consider starting a gratitude journal and practice writing down the different things and people that you appreciate. Smile at people just because you can. Complement others. These actions help to raise your vibration. Practicing gratitude alone can place you in the ideal vibratory state to attract more into your life to foster that feeling. Remember that you attract who you are or, rather, how you see yourself at any given moment. Happiness, joy, health, wealth or any other positive state starts from within first. There are many people out there who seem to have it all yet still feel empty inside. They appear exceedingly wealthy yet are “bankrupt”. What good is success, money and other material things if you are not prepared to enjoy them? Anything and everything that you desire already exist for you in eternity. It is already yours. Nothing in nature grinds. Everything flows in the natural order of things. Allow all that is good to flow to you by paying attention to what you already have right now. What you focus on expands. You are one with the creator, therefore, ARE the creator. Take time to be silent and focus on what you truly desire for your life and why. Make sure that it is your desire and not based on outside influences. You will only be truly happy once you decide to live authentically. Being authentic is foundational for exercising the Law of Attraction and benefiting from it.

Make the decision to commit to being the best version of yourself each day of your life. Make the most of the resources that have appeared in your life at this moment with gratitude for being there. Remember that everything is already yours. Simply be open to receiving it. Practice patience as you would be if placing an order at your favorite restaurant without a doubt that your favorite meal will be brought to you as it has been so many times before. Wait patiently with anticipation already tasting the delicious food in your mind. You don’t concern yourself with how the chef prepares it. You just know that it’s going to be SOOO good!! You expect the best. Attitude is key for opening the floodgates of the universe. Attitude is key. Start with gratitude for what you already have in your material world. This is a powerful signal that notifies the universe that you are ready for more of that. Remember that you attract who you are. Focusing on the good things brings more good things. It is the LAW 🙂 Until next time.